i have a friend that just so happens to b a girl we get on so well and have such a laff, we have been avoiding doin n e thing about our feelings as she lives 150miles away, the problem is we met up the other day and sort of confesed we had a thing 4 each other....
....so tell me do long distance relationships work, they say love concers all but i dunno if i should let my self get involved.
*edit* please feel free to slap me for being a soppy git and posting this!
300 miles from my fiancé
Yes its does workbut can be trying at the best of times
lol - i knew some one would be worse off, so how oftern do u get to speack?
i msn her every day and we talk on the fone most nites - after 7 months we still havent run out of things to say!
how long have you been together?
We spoken to each other for errr - ow feck i thought the girl was meant to remember
As just mates from dec 2002? not sure
We showed interest in sep 2003 - got together in october 2003 - got engaged on new years eve
Speak every day - email and pm all day - chat of an evening when i don't fall asleep and see each other at weekends when money allows
seems about like me then - so there is hope yet, i guess it has its advantages as u must apriciate (i must learn to spell) yr time a lot more.
so u planning on movin together at some point?
U do appreciate your time togetherI also think it makes u appreciate the person more too and gives you experiences that u can learn from and that make u stronger if u can work through them
You also need more trust and better communication
We have a house in scotland and when a suitable job is available for ade we will be together until then just life as normal with our weekends
Go For it, Nassin. I don't Know what age you are, and I will sound really old, but when you look back on life, Don't ever be in the situation of 'I wish I'd asked her out'.
cheers guys u twisted my arm...not that it tok much we will b meetin up a week on sat to take things furtherand hopfully begin something good.
i'm 21 and i guess this still gives me my space and i can still live a little...after all u dont need to sleep around to do that!
i love this place
welll.....depends what you mean by "working"
had a few of the buggers
not so good when your horney as **** and your girlfriend is in cheltnum
and visa versa
haha nice one deathstar - a realist!
but still sure it will b explosive when it does happen!
In the long term you only ever regret the things you didn't do. Give it a go.
The worst thing that'll happen is that it's too hard and doesn't work out. The friendship's changed anyway now - once you've agreed there's an attraction there you've gotta do something about it.
Go for it fella.
Gaz
-x-
deffo go for it
but what i say does happen
all the time infact
If you know and feel in your own mind that this girl is right for you then do it!!
The distance is a complete pain in the arse, as Cath has already said, we are 350 miles apart, we chat in the day, PM and email each other all day and then chat at night.
But truthfully thats never gonna be as good as it is when your together. The one thing I look forward to is the Friday night when I know I will be setting off to be with her for the whole weekend
But those weeknights when you get home from work, and the house is lonely, cause your fiancee is 35o miles away, that is a real heart wrencher
Good luck with it tho Nassin, hope it all works out
Last edited by R33-Drifter; 04-03-2004 at 10:52.
go for it fella.
Love knows no distance heart the heart always feels for the person it wants.
i'm feelin a lot of love in this room right now...yeah yr all right i'm going for it and bloody happy 2
FEEEEEEEL the love !
i need a hug
leon?
IMO they don't work, most of them fail. If you end up in a long distance relationship and you want it to last, one of you has to move asap, it's as simple as that.
If you don't mind moving or she doesn't mind moving then go for it, but if you're the type of person that doesn't like the thought of upping your roots and going elsewhere then forget about her - there's plenty of females that live locally, you just need to get out there and look
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i personally think if you are secure within yourself and they are secure - u have trust and u actually love each other - than it will work no matter what
loss of any of these factors can mean a break down in the relathionship
also outside influences can be a pain
in any relationship id say not just long distanceloss of any of these factors can mean a break down in the relathionship
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