Whats your budget for exhausts? I have a HKS Silent Hi-Power on my 180sx. Its awesome. 3" system going to a 5" can and I have measured roughly 80dB at various tracks over the past few years.
Oh and thats coupled to a stainless manifold, PSM downpipe and decat
Haven't really looked into exhausts for the past few years so can't comment on any others. I'm sure Apex do a quiet exhaust though?